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人际交往中不要“过度投资

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      不要对人太好了！好事几乎都被做尽了，也会给你带来意想不到的结果。对一个有劳动能力、理智健全的人来说，独立、付出都是内部的需要。人际关系中如果不能相互满足某种需要，那么这种关系维持起来就比较困难。在卡耐基成功人际交往思想中，很重要的就是要遵循心理交往中的功利原则——这一原则是建立在人的各种需要(包括精神的、物质的内容)的基础上，即人际交往是满足人们需要的活动。心理学家霍曼斯早在1974年就曾经提出人与人之间的交往本质上是一种社会交换，这种交换同市场上的商品交换所遵循的原则是一样的，即人们都希望在交往中得到的不少于所付出的。其实有止是得到的不能少于付出的，如果得到的大于付出的，也会令人们心理失去平衡。

　　人际交往要有所保留，初入社交圈中的人常犯的一个错误就是“好事一次做尽”，以为自己全心全意为对方做事会专关系融洽、密切。事实上并非如此。因为人不能一味接受别人的付出，否则心理会感到不平衡。“滴水之恩，涌泉相报”，这也是为了使关系平衡的一种做法。如果好事一次做尽，使人感到无法回报或没有机会回报的时候，愧疚感就会让受惠的一方选择疏远。留有余地，好事不应一次做尽，这也许是平衡人际关系的重要准则。

　　留有余地，适当地保持距离，因为彼此心灵都需要一点空间。如果你想帮助别人，而且想和别人维持长久的关系，那么不妨适当地给别人一个机会，让别人有所回报，不至于因为内心的压力而疏远了双方的关系。而“过度投资”，不给对方喘息的机会，就会让对方的心灵窒息。留有余地，彼此才能自由畅快地呼吸。

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